26 GAY PEOPLE'S CHRONICLE NOVEMBER 25, 1994

FROM THE HART

'Wham, bam, get out of my room' leaves him cold

Advice on love, relationships and other Issues, relevant to sexual minorities.

Dear Taylor.

by Taylor Hart

I am a college student living in a dorm on campus. A few months ago I started having sex with another guy who lives in my build-

ing. We never go anywhere or do anything together. All we do is have sex in his room. He never comes to my room and I always have to go to him.

The problem is that after every time we have finished having sex he immediately asks me to leave his room. I then have to get up and go.

Being asked to leave after sex really hurts

ENTERTAINMENT

Phillips takes Great Lakes title

by Jimmie

Well kids, its been a slow autumn. A boy of porn has appeared at Numbers in Cleveland. On Sept. 25 Ty Russell performed his "show," I use this term loosely due to the fact that he was the first in a long time showing actual dancing talent. This was quite evidently needed for what he lacked in the Gstring department, and this was not only my feeling, you could hear comments resonating off the walls. I've seen more of a bulge on some drag contestants.

I spent my birthday eve at Rockies, formerly known as Mix Drinkery, with my intended. This is what dreams are made of. The place looks much improved with the recent renovations. The bar is now on the left with a huge video screen. Rocky himself was at the bar, being his ever-jovial self. The dance floor is basically the same, but now there is a lot more room for actual people.

My good friend Keri Nickels had her final reign as Miss Ohio Great Lakes at Cleveland's U4ia on October 14. If you missed this pageant, you missed a lot. Desiré served as emcee and also entertained with her version of José Cuervo, coming on stage with a bottle of tequila and giving everyone who tipped her a swig of it. All the alcoholics in the place surrounded the runway--where else can you get a couple of shots of José Cuervo for only a dollar? Other performers were Indigo Diamond, Chante Seville, Denise Russell, Roxie

Hart, and Dana Mills doing "La Vie En Rose" by Donna Summer. This was an incredible night, the first reason being thet Keri Nickels was giving up her crown, the second being thet Jennifer Phillips was a contestant. Need I say more? Yes!

Keri was on-from cutting the throats of her men to doing her version of Annie Lennox's "Why" complete with matching headpiece and a flawless costume. In Desiré's words, she was “absolutely fabulous." Keri's final number, "Wind Beneath My Wings" saw her mom on stage in an emotional tribute.

Along with Jennifer were Sable Van Kane and Alexis Kennedy competing for the title. Talent proved to be very interesting, with Jennifer dressed in next to nothing (her trademark) and looking fabulous. She ended up winning the category, along with evening gown and interview. Alexis Kennedy walked off with congeniality. Honorable mention to Sable Van Kane who always looks like she was born in an evening gown and wig. You hang in there, girl... you have a title coming!

This night there was enough hair and make-up in the house to keep a Carnival cruise ship from sinking. Jennifer Phillips won, with Sable Van Kane and Alexis Kennedy first and second runners-up.

Isn't it about time we put Miss Gay Cleveland Northcoast Sheila Davis's picture on a milk carton?

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my feelings. I would really like to stay with him and cuddle or talk. I'm really starting to fall in love with this guy. There is no reason I can't stay in his room. He doesn't have a roommate and no one would ever know I was there.

Please help me, Taylor. I am feeling very depressed about this situation.

Dear Campus Lover,

Campus Lover

It looks to me like the two of you have different perspectives on what your relationship is all about. Obviously he is just interested in you sexually, while you care for him on a deeper, emotional level. Because you want more from him than he is able to give, your relationship with him is unbalanced and you are left wondering why he doesn't return your love. No wonder you are emotionally in pain.

My advice to you is to drop this guy and continue looking for a lover who is able to return your love emotionally, as well as physically. Sex is always better when both parties are in love with each other. Besides, sex is not supposed to leave you feeling depressed!

So go find yourself a good man! A man who loves you, respects you, verifies you and will hold you close and whisper sweet words into your ear after making love to you. After all, you deserve love and happiness. Good luck to you!

Dear Taylor,

I am hoping you can explain to me the reasons my lover always wants to have sex after we have finished arguing. When the fight is over, and we have resolved our differences, he always wants to make love. I'm not complaining about this, I just want to understand him better. Any ideas?

Dear Curious Lover,

Curious Lover

Here are a few possible reasons: Perhaps after arguing he feels some emotional distance from you. By making love he is able to reconnect with you emotionally.

Perhaps he feels he feels energized by your arguing and his passions are thus released more easily. Making love may use up this energy, allowing him to feel more relaxed. Perhaps it is his way of saying, "I'm sorry that we have argued."

Perhaps you are just lucky.

Dear Taylor,

Do you think there are enough gay people and characters on television?

Dear Potato,

Couch Potato

I'm still waiting for some television executive to give me my own talk show. Everybody else has one, so why not me? Look out, Oprah! I'm waiting in the wings and ready to go!

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